Get your ex back – Quick tips in how to get ex back

We all went through this problem at least once in our lifetime. There was always this girl/boy, who we thought of after ending our relationship. And we wished we could do something in winning them back. Guess what? The answer lies deep inside our personality and behavior. Our behavior influences the ones we love.

What happens if you want to get your ex back?

The best fast tips to get your ex back:

if your ex is breaking up with you, don’t argue with her/him or make your ex feel bad about doing this. ‘Show’ that you’re listening and give them the distance that they are asking for.

don’t make contact with your ex after the break up. If you keep the distance you will give her/him a chance to miss you.

keeping some distance is good as it builds a new mystery around you.
think of the issues that caused the breakdown of the relationship! It’s time to work on them.
work out and take good care of yourself.
if they start calling you back after some time don’t revert back to show weakness and act like you’re his/her doormat.
if your ex is seeing major improvements on your end, they will start to act different.
don’t waste time too long or they might think you already have somebody else. Try and get a date and make it unforgettable

Quick Example

Let’s say that you have a nice girlfriend…and one day you get a phone call from her..and she tells you that she doesn’t want to be with you anymore, that she doesn’t know what happen with her, but she wants to be alone for a period…It’s not always like this, but it’s an example. What do you do? …do you want to get your ex back? but you don’t know what really happened, because she gave you a fade answer! Let`s see the example of Mary and James:

In my opinion it is very simple…It was probably a short relationship. Mary was the girl that James dreamt about for some weeks, she probably even had a boyfriend. Finally after she dumped her boyfriend (ex. because he was cheating on her) she hooked up with James. They stayed together for a short time and then, suddenly Mary left….Why? In this case, because of James! James probably showed her too much affection, he was too pushy and he suffocate her with his presence, and that, just after Mary broke up with her ex boyfriend!

James probably even asked her: why didn’t you answer the whole day after calling you? What could James do RIGHT in this case? He should try to look interesting in front of her! Try to be different from the other guys, but in a good way…and also show her affection. If she had a relationship with someone else and now is finished…he shouldn’t jump on her. He should give her time, but in the same time interact with her. James shouldn’t look desperate! And even after Mary is his girlfriend, he should not suffocate her with his presence! James still has to be an interesting guy (for a period)! Keep this in mind: Less is more!