Common mistakes and how to win your ex back

Get Ex Back Jessica December 31, 2011 0

People that want to win their ex back usually tend to do the opposite thing. So these common mistakes will help you to win your ex back, without doing any more damage to your relationship.

Don’t do those mistakes if you want to win your ex back!

  • win your ex backThe first thing you have to do is to stop acting in a way that your ex does NOT feel attraction for. This happens quite often. People tend to be weak, and overly-agreeable.
  • A common mistake happens when you try to convince your ex to come back with logic. Instead of making your ex to understand that you are the best for him/her you must act in a way that will make your ex heart react. So, instead of talking them back in to it, there are some things you need to do to get their heart to respond.
  • The doormat mistake is when you’re playing the role of human doormat. This is inacceptable! If you will plead for” Please stay, I’ll do anything you want…” you will turn up to be in to a sex buddy for a short time, with no respect on your back. Maybe not even a sex buddy! A conclusion for this act? Once something better comes along, you’ll be dead and gone. So, do NOT beg to be taken back…
  • The I LOVE YOU mistake.This happens when you tell them “I love you!”. You must think you’re broke because you suffocate them too much with your love…or smothering your ex with affection right now is not romantic or what your ex want to hear. He or she will not come back running into your arms and despite you will fall into a trap and your partner will not treat you like a victim, but like a miserable insect instead.
  • The nice guy mistake is when you try to be much nicer then you are and try to buy them with flowers and gifts. These things are best used to say Thank you or I love you…But it doesn’t mean you can have again attraction. In fact it can can do worse. This may mean that you are not god enough and you try to compensate with flowers and gifts your defects. You must understand that: “men are different of women and reverse”. For example: men are interested in a woman’s appearance while women are attracted to personality.
  • The power mistake! Giving your ex all your power! This happens when you say to him or her that your life is over without him/her. You absolutely must keep the respect of your ex, if you want a chance to win your ex back. If you already lost your respect, you can win it back.
  • The money mistake! The looks and money trap. Having money and being good looking isn’t a foundation for lasting relationships. So if you have been in a long relationship don’t try to buy your ex back. It won’t work. So looks and money are not everything people care about you must understand that people don’t just dump you. Sometimes they will give you cues about your relationship, maybe it is not working, or you are doing something wrong.

You need to understand these cues and respond the way they want. If you feel you can’t do that, don’t ask them what is wrong with your relationship. Some people might not like that and leave you. Try asking somebody else’s opinion about you, and ask them to be as honest as they can be. And never give up. Remember one thing: If your partner gave you a chance, that means she/he felt interested in you once, but then something happened. You must go back and repair that “something”. There is always a second change, and keep this in mind: NEVER BEG FOR IT!

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