You have just been dumped by your girlfriend/boyfriend. What are you going to do?.. or else…what should you do?
1) The first thing you need to do when trying to win your ex back, is to think what was the cause. Was your personality’s or was your behavior’s fault? In case it was your personality it’s a little bit harder to change things, but it’s possible. For example, this happens when you are a weak person and your partner needs somebody strong. Or maybe you are not the person that your partner is looking for. If you broke up because of your behavior, then the chances of getting her back are bigger, but only if you do the right thing. The most often things that happen are when somebody is cheating on his partner or when he is suffocating him with calls or explanations. This is not a good thing to do. You must understand that people are attracted by mystery, by unknown.
2) The second thing you need to do is to stop contacting your ex. This is the most important step in winning your ex back, especially in case you are the suffocating type. Why? Because in case your partner dumps you because of this, he will probably expect you to call him/her. If you don’t call him at all you will succeed in creating a little “good mystery”. You can use this step even in a relationship, especially at the beginning to create that “good mystery”. Ex: you can talk with your partner for 2 or 3 days, asking him questions, giving him attention and then for the next 3 days you stop doing that. You stop contacting him. This will make him/her think about you and build up that “good mystery”. He will ask himself “Where is he/she? Why isn’t he calling me?”
3) In some cases this is all you have to do! Example if your partner feels attracted by your personality, but you were too suffocating and he suddenly dumped you, you just need to stop calling him for a little period of time. You will notice that in less than a week he/she will call you. From this point you just need to control yourself, don’t do the same mistake again! Show your ex that you’ve changed.
4) Simple messages like: “How are you?” What happens if he doesn’t call you? Continue ignoring him for a period. Let’s say 3 weeks, and then start giving him/her some simple messages like: “How are you?”. Keep this in mind: you want to start your relationship all over again. So treat your ex like a new partner. Don’t expect him/her to jump into your arms.
5) Don’t talk to much about you, try and listen to your ex. Show that you care about him/her.
6) If you want to get your ex back but he is dating someone else look like you don’t care. Don’t ask questions about the other person.
7) If you feel an improvement in your ex partner’s behavior continue with the simple messages and then ask him/her for a date.Make sure this date will be unforgettable. Do something together that you never did before. Something exciting, something different. Then you will certainly get your ex back.
Have faith in you, and if it doesn’t work always remember: for every bad there’s a good thing!!! 
